Adulting...

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Hey people,
  No idea why Iam here😇 ....I know that was not a welcoming sentence,that too when someone is writing something after ages... 

A few days ago, by chance I had to look into this page and  I just read some of the stuff I had written before and...
Boom!!! I got the inspiration to write more...

No!!! that did not happen...
It took me even more days to start typing something....

WHY...?? !!
A whole lecture about why Iam here is not what you are truly expecting for. 

I will just speak out...
wait! that is not how you say that....
I will write out what was in my mind for a very long period of time (now it sounds right 😊)
I have been brooding over this day in and day out. But to frame it into sentences was a huge responsibility...

Adulting😶‍🌫️
That was what I was trying to speak about...(write about, I mean)

You realize that you are into the next phase of your life from very small things that happen around you.From the moment your dear ones start asking whether you are  free before making a phone call. When you have to stop a phone call midway just because you have a pending work on due. Everything that once you ignored starts bothering you.Everything that once you thought was something great turns out to be trivial. Planning meetups  become an endless thing(of course you will never find a day on which all of your friends are free). You suddenly realize that there was a time in your life when you imagined that growing up and earning means hanging out with friends during weekends. But now when it is that time you are way too busy for anything. There is yet another hindrance to this -your friends live hours away from you (doesn't that seem like a silly excuse, you don't even have time to see your neighbours). People are so dwelled up in a number of matters that they don't even have time for themselves. You can see that a whole lot of things are happening with the people of your age...some are struggling to get a job....some are studying hard to push away time... some are getting married...some are having kids...Yet something is common among every single person. All of them are being compressed so hard by all the pressures dumped on them... "To bring out your best," they say, but in reality all it does is suck out your essence that once you held up as your own precious piece. Amidst all this I know some of you out there are struggling hard to stand upright.A small note to you people ...Every single step that you take is a great milestone, eventually things would come into the right place and you will reach your dream places. To all the ones wading through your responsibilities and dreams .....you have come a very long way and  you are doing wonders...love and hugs for everything you are doing...keep going.



It took me exactly one year to write something, so consider this as a frail attempt of someone trying to get back on track (you guessed it right,Iam still into that "perfectly imperfect" style of mine😁)

See you soon(hopefully🤞)

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