Extroverts -In and Out

Extroverts are the loneliest creatures.

Just wait to hear the rest before scorning upon the statement. Yes they are the easy-going ones or that's what everyone thinks. Extroverts - the ones who can talk to total strangers and befriend them quite easily, who is on full air in any social group, who leads, who plan stuffs for parties and meetings, the ones who are friendly, open minded and easily approachable. Now let's just flip the coin and see the other side- the ones who act before thinking, the attention seeking, bossy people. You know that everything , every single being has positives as well as negatives.

             So coming back to the point. You expect certain things from an extrovert. You expect them to do all the talking even in an awkward situation. Do you think this is easy? It never was and never would be. An important feature of an extrovert is that they get boosted up when they are with people. They love talking and being with others, and this doesn't mean that they needn't be given time for themselves. They do love sitting alone. After all only this 'being by themselves' can bring them back with full energy. This fact should not mislead you, for an extrovert can't sit all by themselves for a long period of time, this diminish their energy. They get easily bored with anything and everything. They have plenty of things to talk about that they can lead a conversation to places nobody could even imagine of. They do prefer sorting out their troubles by discussing them with others. Wondering why? So you didn't get what I was trying to say?...

" People," they always need around, happy or sad. 

                They get tired of all these catching up at times and wish someone would really care that they do exist and longs for some love from people whom they care. It's true that they have plenty of friends, but the ones who stand by them in all odds are very few. Little things that other people do for them can make them ecstatic. A word, an expression of love, small surprises... anything can bring a wide smile on their faces.

Pandemic, lock down, quarantine... Yeah I know all you extrovert guys out there are having a terrible time. But let's hope for something good. Best is yet to come....

Read the first sentence again, does it make any sense ?